Why Taking Time Outs is the Most Important Skill for Couples
Our partners can trigger us. If that feels like an understatement, you’re not alone. People often choose partners who hit their sensitive spots.…
7 Best Steamy Historical Romance Novels
Discover the steamiest historical romance novels that blend rich historical detail with sweeping love stories. Check out our curated list.…
17 Inclusive Children’s Books About Diverse Families
From multiracial households to LGBTQ+ parents, these stories foster understanding and inclusivity, enhancing young readers’ perspectives. …
Expert Insights
How Reparenting Your Inner Child Helps Your Relationship
Some of the most powerful times of transformation — personally and in your relationship — can come when you connect with the hurt child parts inside of you.…
How to Be a Better Communicator Using the Feedback Wheel
Learn to use the Feedback Wheel to navigate difficult conversations with your partner and be a better communicator. Hint: It’s not about who’s “right.”…
Why Taking Time Outs is the Most Important Skill for Couples
Our partners can trigger us. If that feels like an understatement, you’re not alone. People often choose partners who hit their sensitive spots.…
Burnt Out from Dating? 4 Healthier Ways to Look for Love
Dating to help yourself feel better can lead to decisions you regret later. Instead, expert Erin Davidson recommends ways to stay true to yourself.…
Why Self-Compassion Is Key for Your Relationships: Expert
Learning to be more self-compassionate can help you and your relationships in some surprising ways, explains expert Kristin Neff.…
Why Scheduling Intimacy is Important: The Myth of Spontaneous Sex
Anticipation can help spark desire. Sex therapist Erin Davidson outlines the benefits of penciling in sexy time.…
Opinions
Why Making “Willing Sacrifices” in a Relationship Is Essential
Healthy relationships involve compromise. Relationship therapist Erin Davidson outlines how to compromise without fueling resentment. …
You’re Not Responsible for Your Partner’s Sexual Satisfaction
The only desire you’re responsible for is your own. Sex therapist Erin Davidson explains how to cope with a libido discrepancy.…
What Is Most Important to a Man in a Relationship?
Expert Melody Phu covers the things men value most including time alone, trust, open communication, and affirmation.…
Relationship News
Reading Literary Fiction May Make You More Emotionally Intelligent
But popular fiction may not have the same benefits.…
Your Co-Parent’s Bad Boss May Impact You More Than You Think
A study found a person’s feelings about their boss seemed to have a major knock-on effect on their co-parent, affecting their performance at work and with the kids.…
When Looking Fancy Might Not Be Favorable
New research reveals that people may choose to avoid wearing luxury brands when they want to convince others they can collaborate well on a team.…
Colleagues May Want Your Feedback More Than You Think
People want constructive feedback, but, curiously, they underestimate just how much other people want it, too, according to research.…
Research-Backed Advice
Gossip Definition: What Is It and How to Manage
Gossiping might seem fun in the moment, but it can hurt feelings and make it harder to build trust. Here’s how to avoid harmful gossip. …
How to Use “Managing Up” to Advance Your Career: 8 Tips
It’s about providing real value to yourself, your boss, and your organization. Managing up can help you handle a difficult boss and get you promoted.…
Your Partner’s Menstrual Cycle: Their Needs, Mood, and More
If your intimate partner has a menstrual cycle, you likely know when they’re on their period. But do you know what’s happening the rest of the time?…
9 First Date Flirting Tips, Backed by Research
Flirting can be super subtle. The tactics you choose may depend on your and your dates gender(s) and whether you’re looking for a fling or longer term love.…
7 Peaceful Tips for Dealing with Neighborhood Bullying
Whatever you do, don’t give them the satisfaction of fighting back. Here are a few methods for how to take the high road, recommended by experts.…
How to Manage a Long-Distance Break-Up
Breaking up is hard to do. And there’s no right way to do it. Relationship experts share their advice for identifying when it’s time to call it quits and tips for how to manage the conversation.…
What Kills Long-Distance Relationships? Plus What to Do
Long distance relationships can be fulfiling, but these common problems spell trouble, according to relationship therapist Jaime Bronstein.…
How to Get a Bully to Leave You Alone: 5 Tips
Yes, bullying can happen even in adulthood. Dealing with a bully can be challenging, but it’s possible. Creating boundaries and protecting your emotions are an important part of stopping bullying.…
How to Prep For Your First Marriage Counseling Session
Marriage counseling isn’t just for couples having problems. Discussing expectations with your partner beforehand can help you get the most out of your therapy sessions. …
How to Stop Overexplaining Yourself: 5 Things to Do Instead
It can be a trauma response you developed, likely in childhood, in a situation where you were used to avoiding conflict.…
Books
7 Best Steamy Historical Romance Novels
Discover the steamiest historical romance novels that blend rich historical detail with sweeping love stories. Check out our curated list.…
17 Inclusive Children’s Books About Diverse Families
From multiracial households to LGBTQ+ parents, these stories foster understanding and inclusivity, enhancing young readers’ perspectives. …
Shopping
Free Valentine’s Day Gifts: 10 No-Spend Ideas
Ideas for everyone, whether or not you intend on spending money this Valentine’s Day.…
9 Neat Father’s Day Gifts Nerdy Dads Will Love
Nerdy gift options to show dad you were paying attention when he showed you his niche interest, and you love him for it.…
The 20 Best Travel Games for Couples
Travel-specific games and conversation starters can help you and your partner pass the time and lighten the mood when you’re on the move.…
8 Creative Gifts For Working Moms (By a Working Mom)
The best gifts I’ve received were thoughtful, creative, and showed me that my family valued all parts of me.…
11 Mother’s Day Gifts That Make Mom’s Life Easier
Gifts to honor just how many hats she wears every day — and help take the load off. Plus a few treats just for fun.…
Gift Ideas for Your Sweetheart: 50 Romantic picks
Whether you decide to gift your sweetheart something classic or an experience, remember that it’s the thought that counts. …
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